Yet, I don't want to forget or ignore this month. It's important to recognize the struggle I've made and that countless other women are making every day. This year, as a way of giving back to the cancer clinic that gave me such excellent care, I'm giving a writing workshop for breast cancer survivors later this week. As usual, writing helped me through the ordeal, and I hope to give these women tools to help them make it through, as well.
To all the survivors out there, I salute you. To all the nurses and doctors and therapists who work with breast cancer patients, I thank you. And to all the caregivers out there, those spouses, lovers, parents, siblings, children, friends, who've cooked and cleaned and driven to radiation and chemo treatments and held us while we cried after diagnoses, surgeries, and pathology reports, I am in awe of your strength, courage, and love, and I know a lot fewer of us would make it through if it weren't for you.
TO
THE NURSE WHO TOLD ME TO GRIEVE FOR MY BREAST
I
sit here unable to understand.
My
breasts have been good to me,
I’ll
admit to that—
lots
of sexual pleasure
through
the years,
large
cup size when it mattered
to
the world around me,
never
any problem with infection,
mastitis,
fibrosis, cysts.
When
I had babies,
my
breasts overflowed.
No
problem nursing—
I
pumped breast milk
for
La Leche to deliver
to
neonatal preemies.
Men
and women who were born too soon
and
struggled to live
may
be alive today
in
part because of my breasts.
It’s
not like we’re talking
a
hand, an eye, a leg.
It’s
just a breast,
mostly
a big inconvenience,
always
in the way and vulnerable.
Not
something I can’t do without.
Losing
it won’t cripple me.
(Published
in Black Renaissance Noire, 2015)
beautiful and stunning, per usual.
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